The loss of virginity, much anticipated and dreaded at the same time, it is a very important moment in the lives of women. But among the 15, 17 and 19 years what is the best age for first sex? Small tips to find the right time.
Losing your virginity, is that ...? Technically a woman still a virgin as her hymen (the membrane flexible at the entrance of the vagina) remains intact. When maintaining a sexual relationship, and Thus there is a penetration, the man's penis inserted into the vagina to break the hymen. At the time may be a slight bleeding, is what is called defilement or loss of virginity.
However, there are many preconceived ideas about that time so it would not hurt to get a little a day: you can not lose your virginity horseback riding. However, regular practice of a sport such as dance or horseback riding can soften the hymen and thus make the first penetration less painful.
ideal age
legal level, in Spain can keep sex from the age of 13 which does not mean that if someone is a virgin at 14 is outside the norm. In fact there is no age "normal" to lose her virginity, it all depends on the physical and psychological maturity and context.
about ... And mind as well!
The first time should go hand in hand with the desire. You have to be mature enough level and in relation to sexual desires to assume. With the advent of adolescence the body undergoes a metamorphosis, gradually becomes an adult and libido is awakened. You figured out how to give you pleasure and you're completely alone open to it, so you've reached a certain physical maturity, but for now your relationship with sexuality is lonely and is based on fantasies. Are you psychologically ready to discover your privacy and share your pleasure with a man? Sometimes the body grows faster than the head and go to practice both should be coordinated.
Best
If you're ready, both physically and psychologically, you just have to find the right person, you really have to love and inspire enough confidence to feel like making love with it. The context is also important, because you feel totally comfortable and safe, especially the first time, because if you are tense, the vaginal muscles will contract and the penetration will be painful. Expected to find someone with whom you feel good to take the plunge, though this may seem frustrating, frustration is part of life and also adds a touch of spice to sexuality.
Some people expect to be really love to lose virginity and they are right: it is an important moment in the life of a woman and not have to ruin it. This first experience is critical to your future sex life. Can cause painful experience crashes and injuries. Take your time, no hurry in this life everything comes.
Others choose an experienced man you like but which are not in love. They want to get rid of what they see as a burden to advance their sexual life. If you are unsure what they do and do not make love to do what everyone does, why not?
In both cases the most important thing is to feel prepared and downplay the matter: The first time is never sensational, but it is the gateway to other times much more pleasant.
necessary precautions
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regardless of age, if you decide to lose your virginity you have to go to the gynecologist to prescribe you an adequate contraception. Do not forget to use condoms, are the only protection against STDs and other infections more benign, so they are indispensable